Tuesday, March 8, 2016

Update

After spotting and bleeding for 16 days, my body finally seemed to get back to "normal." I had a final blood draw yesterday and my hCG level was below 1, so the loss is over.  I can talk about it without crying but I am still sad. My grandma was the most helpful saying that there was most likely something wrong and the baby is luckier to be in heaven than to face serious medical hardships on earth. She also told me that it was nothing wrong that I did.

In trying to see the positives...

My body can get pregnant. There is a chance baby #2 will happen someday.

I channeled my sad energy into some house progress. Our daughter's room finally has all of the wallpaper glue removed, has one coat of primer up, and we have the paint colors chosen! The never ending room makeover should be complete before Easter!

I had two classes during my bleeding. They were both registered for before all of this happened and I was glad for the distraction. I am now re-certified in pediatric and child CPR/AED. And I now know how to make some simple fermented foods that will hopefully get all of our gut flora back to health! My daughter seems to be benefiting a little bit already, which is wonderful and makes me so happy!




7 comments:

  1. Oh I've been thinking about you. Missing you in our group. I am sending my love from afar and praying for peace. Xoxo

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  2. Can I share your blog address in our group?

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  3. Oh sweet friend my heart hurts for you. But I believe your Grandma is right. Like you said your body can get pregnant again and it will happen again. Big hugs!

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  4. I'm so sorry for your loss.

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  5. Heidi! We miss you! So so sorry for your loss - your grandma's words were so wise. Sending lots of love!

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  6. I'm so sorry to read this, my friend. We're all here for you. Sending you so much love.

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  7. I'm so sorry to read this, my friend. We're all here for you. Sending you so much love.

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